Just a couple of weeks ago, I was commenting to my doctor on how quickly this pregnancy seemed to be going and joked that, “When you get older, time goes faster.”  But this week has been so slow for me.  After tonight, I have one more week of lessons for June and then I have a lighter load for July–only 10 students.  But time has gone by so slowly this week!   I have been doing a lot of organizing of space and trying to get ready for our new arrival.  It has been enjoyable.

If you have seen David’s blog, you saw that we are thinking about converting the garage into a school room/piano studio.  It is not uncommon around here to do that, as we have very little use of our garage.  Now when we lived in Minnesota, you needed a garage, or at least a place to plug in your car for the cold winters, but here, not at all.  I can’t remember the last time I parked in the garage.  Hence, the garage conversion.  Anyway, we have 3 bedrooms and an extra room over the garage.  The room over the garage is now the school room/piano studio, but once the baby comes, we are moving Alex up to the room over the garage and Beth wants to move into Alex’s room, so the baby will have Beth’s room.  We can make due having school in the kitchen or dining room, but it will be tight, so David, who always likes a project, wants to do this.  I’m liking the idea, but I don’t want him to stress himself out.  We could get by without it, but he loves working on stuff like this, so we are looking at ways to pay for it.

One of my friends has taken it on herself to give me a baby shower.  I haven’t had one since Alex was born, and I’m kind of glad she decided to do it, because we didn’t save ANY baby stuff from Alex and Beth’s baby years.  (14 years ago.)  We have got quite a bit given to us from people at church–so most of our bigger things are out of the way.  David’s family sent a “shower in a box” a couple of weeks ago that came complete with a diaper cake and gifts and party favors.  It was very cool!  But when people started asking where I was registered, I didn’t have an answer.  I have never registered anywhere, not even when we got married.  And after a couple more people ask, I finally decide I should probably register somewhere, so David and I went to Babies R Us and registered for stuff we needed.  It isn’t a huge list, but it sure was fun.  We also went to Target, which is my favorite store and registered there too.  My friend sent out invitations out today and the shower will be on June 30th.  I’m kind of excited.  We definitely still need a mattress and bedding and stuff, and that is on the registry.  We did put a few “non-essential” items on there, like a rocking chair and a bassinet.  We already have a swing, a bouncy seat, a stroller, a baby car seat, changing table and crib.  Most of it was given to us.  Oh and the clothes!  David’s co-worker had a baby last September and gave us all her beautiful clothes–I mean they are so nice and in good condition!  So we have definitely been blessed!  I think after all the discussion on who to invite to the shower, we got it down to 36 people.  I know not everyone can make it, and some of those people I felt I had to invite since David is a worship leader at church, but I think it will be a pretty nice shower.  I’m getting kind of spoiled, I think.

We still have some things we need to do.  We need to pack up the room over the garage, so Alex can move in.  We need to have a garage sale to get rid of some of the extra stuff we have accumulated.  We need to put new flooring in Alex’s room, since the carpet is done for!

I guess if I look at how much we have left to do, I might not be inclined to think that the days are crawling by.  Hopefully they will get faster!

Written on June 19th, 2008 , Everyday Life

I was talking with a friend of mine this morning about religion.

Religion has been on my brain for as long as I was aware I had a brain. For definition, religion is man’s attempt to please God. There are different definitions, but I have found this one to sum it up pretty well.

Many people confuse faith with religion, and there certainly is an element of faith in religion, but faith is not required for religion. In fact, many times religion is in direct opposition to faith.

Religion killed Jesus, religion is powerful all by itself.

There are many good aspects about religion, and I am not debating the merits of established religion, but most often religion is what is left after faith runs out. Other times religion springs up to run faith out. In the post modern area religion is something you do and faith is something you read about.

When people start reading about faith a funny thing happens – they want to experience it for themselves. Read about blind eyes opening, deaf ears hearing, the lame walking, terminal illness being healed, the dead walking and it causes questions to rise. Inevitably,  those questions lead back to religion, specifically why what we do does not line up to what we are told we are supposed to do. If the point of religion is to please God, how can we please Him if we aint doin what He told us to do?

It turns out we can’t.

Read further and we find that the ONLY way to please God is by faith, and pleasing God without it is impossible.

And yet – we drive faith out of everything by turning it into a religion.

I know some will say that religion is faith, and I do believe that is how it all starts. The thing is, we take what God did in the past and invariably create a pattern to replicate it in the future. Let’s say I was reading in the Bible about God blessing those who give. I take that word (hearing) and apply some faith to it (substance of things unseen) and pray for an hour for God to bless me. The next day there is a check in my mailbox, and thing hoped for becomes real. Experience now tells me that “If I pray for and hour about being blessed – God will bless me with a check in my mailbox.” I now make a point to pray an hour every day so that He will do it again”.

And it doesn’t happen. 

Undeterred, I muster up some faith (thing hoped for) and keep at it for a month. 

Still nothing.

I haven’t forgoten what God did and determine to believe harder for the blessing of a check in the mailbox. Before long I am praying to have faith for faith assuming that what is wrong is my activation. If I can just perfect my 1 hour prayer the exact same way I performed it the first time – God will most certainly bless me again with a check in my mailbox.

I have just created a religion. 

Here is what I think happens. The first time I prayed required genuine faith. The second time I prayed still required faith, but now it was tainted by experience. There is still a measure of faith exercised the second time I pray, but I have now injected the outcome. I am no longer open to God moving in an unpredictable creative way and in fact have created a box for God to work in – the check in my mailbox. If God stops blessing me in my prayer time and I keep at it in “faith” looking for the blessing in the same exact way – that is religion. I am trying to please God.

I am convinced of one thing – God never does the same thing twice. In fact I think He is unable to as it goes against His very nature. Nothing in our natural experience is identical. Not one blade of grass, or snow flake or drop of rain or grain of sand. There is nothing predictable about our planet or the universe it spins within, everything is in constant creative motion.

The only place you find replication and predictability is in man.

God makes curves and man makes lines. 

Just look around at your surroundings, everything man makes is in nice little boxes. Everything we design strives to be predictable and tidy and when it behaves differently it is broken. 

This planning and control has filtered into everything we do – especially church. Attend most services and you will see the same pattern: 3 fast songs 2 slow – announcements - offertory - preaching – application – ministry – football. This pattern is repeated every Sunday in every denomination in every city in the world.

Why – because it works?

Because it is predictable, repeatable, convenient, safe, and familiar.

Jesus said in Matthew 10: “Heal the sick, raise the dead, cleanse the lepers, cast out demons. Freely you received, freely give.”

Just imagine what would happen in our churches if we did that instead!

My friend and I were thinking about how God could fit that into our Sunday morning services and we came to the conclusion only one thing would be required to make it happen.

Simply change the way we do Sunday morning service.

Actually make room for God to do what He does best – be creative.

Of course that will require faith, which seems to be in short supply in 2008. Perhaps we need to go back and start hearing again.

Written on June 17th, 2008 , Faith, Supernatural

These were taken at the June 5th recital.  I had 14 students perform at this recital, and 10 at the other one.  I decided that I would play a piece this time.  At Christmas, I had a couple of parents ask me to play and I was totally unprepared to play anything–I hadn’t memorized anything.  So I figured I better play something this time around so they know their kid’s piano teacher can actually play.

You can see that my belly is getting bigger.

You can see I have a maternity dress on now.

Elizabeth played “You’ve Got a Friend in Me.”

As Daddy would say, “Isn’t she beautiful?”

Alex was a big help–and big as well!  He’s growing up!

This is me giving last minute instructions to my students.

David was the one taking pictures, so we don’t have one of his pretty face, but I will try to catch him at some point.

Written on June 17th, 2008 , Music, Piano

I have one more day being 38. This age thing is getting out of hand now. Half way to 76 was fine, but half way to 78 is frightening considering the life expectancy of males is 75.

According to the Life Expectancy Calculator my virtual age is 17!

I can expect to live approximately another 21100 more days!

I feel much better now.

Guess what I am getting for turning almost 18!

See, now that I am only 17ish getting a new semi-hollow Epiphone for my birthday makes perfect sense!

What does not make perfect sense is finding the time to teach myself how to play the electric guitar with a new baby on the way.

At 39 and the father of 2 teeneagers, the last thing I will be  doing is locking myself in my room watching MTV learning how to play “Living on a Prayer“.

Written on June 13th, 2008 , Everyday Life
On December 29, 2005 George Anthony Lutz II (Tony) was killed by a sniper’s bullet while he was on patrol outside Fallujah, Iraq. His family and friends endured the shock, emotional agony and overwhelming loss that accompanied the news of Tony’s death, just like the many families who have suffered the same tragedy.

In the months that followed Tony’s funeral, his father, George, visited other families who had lost loved ones in the Iraq war. He began to sense that he had joined the ranks of a unique fellowship. These families were only the latest additions to a group that originated with the American Revolution, when the first soldiers to shed their blood for our freedom gave their lives.

George found another commonality among the families of fallen soldiers. After their grief had transitioned to numbness and finally to acceptance, many families wanted to know two things: their sacrifice was not in vain and the nation would never forget. These concerns led George on a quest to discover if there was a universally recognized symbol that acknowledges the American servicemen and servicewomen who never made it home. To his surprise, he found nothing. Did families generations before us feel any different, were parents from any past conflict crying for anything less than Remembrance.

Many families of fallen soldiers have established memorials to their lost loved ones. Whether it is a monument, license plate, armband, ceremony, street name or website, each reminder is intended as a tangible link to a loved one who was lost. As meaningful as these memorials are, they cannot represent the collective honor due to each fallen soldier from a grateful nation.

The Honor and Remember Flag should fly from every flagpole in America as a daily reminder that the rights and freedoms we enjoy have not been cheaply purchased. They have been bought with the blood of brave young Americans, whose families and friends will never forget them.

What can you do?

1) Please take a minute and visit www.honorandremember.org and sign the petition.

2) Forward this email to everyone you know.

Click here to sign the petition: www.honorandremember.org

Thank you!

Davie

Written on June 13th, 2008 , Politics
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